Q: I’ve been dating the same man for two years, but he still hasn’t asked me to marry him. Should I give him the ultimatum? Why or why not?

A: The worst thing that you can do is give a man an ultimatum. An ultimatum, to a man, is no more than an advanced look at your ability to resolve conflict and issues within your relationship. Our next question becomes, “What will she do the next time that we disagree or that she doesn’t get her way?”